Each couple works out their own set of rules when it comes to their relationship, and this is the best way for people to be able to stay together for a long time. Two people taking separate vacations do not necessarily mean they care less for each other, and many of them find it makes life during the rest of the year much better. Each person comes back with new tales to tell about their activities and the people they have met.
Many people are monogamous, and the thought of being physically intimate with someone other than their partner is frightening. These are not people who are looking for physically intimate adventures, and it is an agreement within their partnership that both will remain faithful. There are some people who believe that being with others intimately enhances their relationship, and these are people who take separate vacations so they can have separate intimate adventures from their partner.